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Can You Build a Future, if One of You is Still in the Closet?

2025-06-08

To be in a successful long-term gay relationship, there needs to be alignment. So what happens when you’re out of the closet, and the other is not?

To text or not to text...

2025-05-05

To text or not to text? It’s one of the trickiest parts of post-date etiquette.

Gay men aren't looking for love

2025-04-10

There are several myths about gay men that simply aren’t true. One common misconception is that gay men aren’t looking for love. In reality, many are deeply committed to finding meaningful, long-term relationships built on trust and emotional connection.

The Pandemic of Swiping

2025-03-01

In a world dominated by dating apps, it’s easy to get caught in the cycle of endless swiping.

The evolution of Gay dating

2025-01-08

The evolution of Gay dating

Dating is a full-time job

2024-12-08

Dating is a full-time job... and you already have one

The Best Months for Dating

2024-11-08

Our founder Jacqueline Burns, on the best months for dating.

A Day in the Life of a Gay Matchmaker: Connecting Exceptional Men to Love 

2024-10-08

In the world of professional gay matchmaking, no two days are the same. But for me, each one starts with a few constants.

The Key to Finding a Lasting Relationship

2024-09-08

Watch out for these toxic behaviour when trying to your ideal future partner.

Why the 'summer dating' mindset won't help you find love

2024-08-08

Finding love all year round

How to keep momentum with your search for love this summer

2024-07-08

Keep the search going this summer, despite all your exciting plans!

Pride Month Baby!

2024-06-08

Pride Month is such a fun month. But everyone can celebrate it differently. Read below for making the most out of Pride Month, for you.

Best Global Gay Matchmaking Agency 2024

2024-05-08

Second year in a row!

Gay men navigating the dating scene in a new city

2024-04-08

For gay men navigating the dating scene in a new city, here are some pieces of advice to help make the experience as fulfilling and rewarding as possible:

Letting Go

2024-03-08

Finding love can be a rollercoaster. If you find yourself reneging on your boundaries here are some things that you can do to reset yourself:

Happy Belated Valentines Day!

2024-02-08

Reflections on Valentines Day 2024

Self Love

2024-01-08

It is true what they say 'you have to love yourself first' but what does that truly mean?

That ol' Christmas spirit!

2023-12-08

It’s the most wonderful time of the year! Ho, ho, ho. Or, is it?

Matching based on feelings

2023-11-08

Focus on how you want to FEEL in a relationship. Not credentials.

Spooky October

2023-10-08

See below for examples of where our members can take wrong turns when dating.

The ultimate ten letter word: BOUNDARIES

2023-09-08

When to stay and when to walk away.

Happiness

2023-08-08

First comes happiness, then comes marriage..then comes the - well, whatever you want next!

Indecision

2023-07-08

Are you a decisive person or not? And ultimately, which is better?

Pride Month Baby!

2023-06-08

Balance

2023-05-08

Work, finances, health, friends, family, love – how do we find the right balance to allow us to meet Mr Right?

Best Global Gay Matchmaking Agency 2023

2023-04-08

Yes, that's us!

Spring time loving

2023-03-08

You deserve it all. Stop settling for less than what you deserve and read below for how to spring clean your way to love.

When to move on

2023-02-08

Relationships are all about balance and finding true love involves balance in heaps. Read below to learn more about when to stay and when to walk away.

January blues in love

2023-01-08

Have you started this year feeling a bit blue and lost as to what your next steps are? Read below to learn more about finding love in 2023 and matchmaking with The Echelon Scene.

Healing the inner self and self-love.

2022-11-08

In times of uncertainty and stress we can look outwards to those around us for love and support- which is not a bad thing. But read below to learn more about giving ourselves that love we seek.

Mindset and positivity when being matchmade is key, here’s why:

2022-10-08

It is easy to get down in the dumps about being single. Read below for ways to stay positive and give yourself the best chance of meeting the right person through a matchmaker.

Summer may feel over, but this is the season to find love!

2022-09-08

It feels like summer is over, but at The Echelon Scene this is our favourite time of year for finding love. Read below for top tips on keeping the summer feeling and finding love now.

Who am I?

2022-06-08

Truly knowing ourselves is key. Whilst labelling can be harmful, finding inner strength of self is one of the most important parts of life. Read below for more on the journey to self-exploration.

How to grow in the right direction to find long lasting love.

2022-05-08

Find balance, follow the gut, assess patterns of behaviour and break negative patterns. Please read below for more on our findings:

Opening our hearts to others is the foundation of love.

2022-03-08

Putting others before ourselves, being active in philanthropy and giving back to our community are all acts of love. Rather than focusing on getting love, why not turn your focus to giving it.

Growing and it’s key part to play in you finding love.

2022-02-08

Learning and not being afraid to look stupid or be bad at something is essential in our adult lives. Read below for why doing things that scare you will lead to love.

Mercury Retrograde, in January- some top tips from a matchmaker..

2022-01-08

Happy new year! Dating during mercury retrograde AND in January is quite an undertaking. Read below for some tips on how to best navigate the coming month ahead, from a matchmaker:

Some advice from us for dating over the Christmas period

2021-12-08

Dating over the seasons is different one month to the next, but read below to navigate your December/January dating mindset.

Vulnerability and why it is so important in gay dating

2021-11-08

Vulnerability may seem scary but it saves us in the long run. Being open and honest about who you are at the start ensures we meet someone who we want around us through thick and thin.

Self-image and dating as a gay man seeking love

2021-10-08

There can be pressure to look a certain way as a single gay man. Food and exercise are inextricably linked to love. And, let’s discuss types..

What are the reasons for flaky behaviour when gay dating?

2021-09-08

When two men go on a date which has been arranged by Jacqueline Burns, the compatibility will be there. There will also be mutual commitment. But why then can men act flaky?

Partnership with Ashlie Walker- our resident personal transformation coach.

2021-08-08

We are excited to announce a partnership with Ashlie Walker, personal transformation coach. Please read below for more information on how she works!

Just because you are nailing life, doesn't mean that you are perfect.

2021-07-08

Here are 5 top tips to help you settle happily into the relationship you want, but can’t quite seem to get.. because you’re standing in your own way:

Pride Month!!

2021-06-08

As Pride month commences, we take stock of everything that’s gone on over the past fifteen months. Re post on the teachings we have learnt from COVID dating.

Masculine vs feminine energy and how the masculine can hinder finding love

2021-05-08

How overly identifying with masculine energy can create issues when searching for a gay long-term partner, how to solve the imbalance and reconnect with the feminine as a man.

The Echelon Scene matchmaker’s guide: gay dating for long-term love through us!

2021-04-08

There are always themes we come across each month with our Client’s and they bring us lessons for future dating. Read below for 10 tips on not just dating/ dating through a matchmaker.

Dating ideas to mix it up (as much as is possible over lockdown)

2021-03-08

Dating is definitely not as it used to be, but that doesn’t have to be a negative. Read below for some fun/ cute tips of how to try something new with your dates over the coming months.

Ten tokens of advice before Valentine’s Day and after a year of COVID dating.

2021-02-08

It’s been another month of lockdown, yet we are still learning. Read below for some tips to keep you focused on your search to finding your compatible gay long-term partner.

Love and happiness during lockdown 3.0, how to find it and maintain it

2021-01-08

Whilst the global situation is scary and bleak, we needn’t find our love lives in a similar predicament. Read below for ways to stay happy and keep on track.

How to round up 2020 in style with these five nuggets of advice

2020-12-08

It has been a rough year, but we have learnt huge amounts. Read below for some tid bits of advice, to get yourself on the healthiest path and give yourself the best chance to find Mr Right.

Covid lockdown 2.0 and what it means for dating to find your long-term gay partner

2020-11-08

At gay matchmaking agency The Echelon Scene we are here to tell you 2020 and dating to find love is not over. Read below for five reasons to reassure you why not to throw in the towel just yet.

The art of Tantra

2020-10-08

How do we achieve true connection in today’s modern world and how do Jacqueline Burns' teachings in the art of Tantra come in useful for her Client's who are all seeking healthy, long-term relationships?

Are gay stereotypes stopping you from finding your future gay husband?

2020-09-08

September is the best month for dating and finding your future gay husband. If a bit lost on your search to finding Mr Right, here are some concepts to focus your attention on, before you dive into dating.

Fun dating in the future, it will happen so let’s get ready!

2020-08-08

Stuck in a COVID inflicted rut with dating? The Echelon Scene have some top tips of points to consider and an exciting partnership with concierge service Ellidore to fill you in on.

When it’s time to move on

2020-07-08

At The Echelon Scene, we would like to say that every single match is a success immediately, but sadly for us and for our Clients, that is not always the case. It can take a few introductions to reach the sweet spot. So, for the single gay men out there kissing the frogs, before we introduce them to their Prince… here is some advice and encouragement, for when to move on and what is right and what isn’t, when dating.

Pride month!!

2020-06-08

As Pride month commences and we take stock of everything that’s gone on over the past few months worldwide, it really puts everything into perspective. Read below for top tips on finding love after COVID.

How the ‘new normal’ will be a vast improvement for gay men seeking a long-term partner

2020-05-08

Dating during and after COVID-19 might look different. Here is hoping. Read below to see what changes gay matchmaker Jacqueline Burns and Founder of The Echelon Scene, is noticing already and how things might change for the better going forward.

The 'new normal' for gay matchmaking

2020-04-08

All of our members still want to meet a partner. So how are we working during these difficult few months of COVID-19 to give gay singles what they want, a long-term relationship.

Gay Community Stress Theory

2020-03-08

What can we do to make gay men feel better? Or make ourselves (as a gay man) feel better? Stop focusing on being perfect and focus on being YOU.

Narrowing down the gay dating pool to find love

2020-02-08

Know yourself to find the right man to fall in love with. The gay dating pool is vast, so here are some tips to find love in a sea of singles.

How important is the question of family in gay dating? Love me love my family..?

2020-01-08

How important is the family in gay dating? Gay matchmaker Jacqueline Burns runs over upbringing, family values and discusses how to navigate your future partner's family below...

CSI: The Search for Gay Love

2019-12-08

Searching for gay love has to have its limits. Ransacking someone's tagged photos on Instagram should be one. Make your judgment through a matchmaker or in person. The internet hinders bonding.

Mercury Retrograde!! Five ways to survive it and remain dating confident!

2019-11-08

Whether you believe Mercury retrograde is a load of quack, or a time to batten down the hatches, November is always a time of stress management and ‘getting through.’ Here are five tips on how to stay positive (essential when dating) until November 20th, when it comes to an end.

The Echelon Scene- Standing out from the gay matchmaking crowd

2019-10-08

In a competitive world, filled with choice, what separates The Echelon Scene and Jacqueline Burns from the crowd?

Ignore the Three Day Rule when Gay Dating

2019-09-08

Rules? What rules? Gay dating should flow. Read more on Jacqueline Burns' opinion in the Three Day Rule.

Gay Dating Podcast, Listen Now!

2019-08-08

Catch Jacqueline Burns on episode 9- gay dating special! Talking dos and dont's of gay dating and just generally having a whale of a time.

Global Gay Matchmaking- Finding Love Across Seas

2019-07-08

Gay matchmaker Jacqueline Burns travels far and wide to meet all of her Clients and potential Clients in locations they feel comfortable in, where they can relax and she can get to know them. Running a truly global gay matchmaking business means more than just speaking to some of the world's most interesting internationals. It means making the effort to sit down with people looking for their long-term gay partner and get to know them face to face, all over the world.

Don't oversell yourself gay singles!

2019-06-08

How to date as a gay single using business principles, by gay matchmaker Jacqueline Burns

The Echelon Scene interviews Saskia Nelson at Hey Saturday

2019-05-08

The Echelon Scene interviews Founder of Hey Saturday, Saskia Nelson about her experience as a world-renowned photographer and recognised expert on all things dating photo related. Jacqueline grills Saskia about gay men's place in her niche world!

Marriage

2019-04-08

Marriage.com kindly invited Jacqueline Burns to guest write about gay dating, pinpointing relationship goals and maintaining intimacy in long-term gay relationships. By Jacqueline Burns Founder of The Echelon Scene

Feature in Kensington, Chelsea & Westminster Today on Gay Dating and The Echelon Scene

2019-03-08

Gay dating is tough sometimes but gay matchmaker Jacqueline Burns has the answers. Click Read More to read the article in full.

How men communicate in long-term gay relationships, by gay matchmaker Jacqueline Burns

2019-02-08

Jacqueline Burns gay matchmaker has researched whether men are generally `better or worse at communicating than women in relationships. Read below to discover how to overcome communication issues in long-term gay relationships.

Click the link below : Jacqueline Burns' full interview on The Latest, LGBT TV

2019-01-08

Click 'Read More' below to watch our full interview on The Latest, LGBT TV: Jacqueline Burns discusses offline gay matchmaking, The Echelon Scene's clientele and more!

Gay Dating- How to Find Love in a Sea of Commitment Phobes, by Gay Matchmaker Jacqueline Burns

2018-12-08

Finding a gay long term partner can be hard during the cold winter months, but thankfully Jacqueline Burns, Founder of The Echelon Scene and gay matchmaker knows all the tricks from her years of gay matchmaking! Hunt Ethridge originally published this blog he is an award-winning dating and relationship expert. He was recently voted the #1 Male Dating Expert in the country at the 2016 US Dating Awards. To read his advice articles, click here.

Gay Matchmaker Jacqueline Burns Talks Exes with Her Clients Prior to Gay Matchmaking

2018-11-08

What's wrong and right when it comes to relationships and feelings towards exes? Gay matchmaker Jacqueline Burns, discusses her experience in working in gay matchmaking and asking her clients about their exes.

Interview with Out of Office, Luxury Gay Travel Company, About the World of Gay Matchmaking

2018-10-08

Gay matchmaker Jacqueline Burns talks to luxury LGBT travel company OutOfOffice.com about all things gay matchmaking.

A Cultural Shift in Gay Dating, by Gay Matchmaker Jacqueline Burns

2018-09-08

No great single gay men out there looking for a relationship? Nonsense we cry! Gay matchmaking all over the world has opened Jacqueline Burns' eyes to the truly incredible single gay men wanting to find a gay husband with no time, and no tool to bring them together, besides The Echelon Scene!

Good Advice/ Bad Advice Made Clear, by Gay Matchmaker Jacqueline Burns

2018-08-08

Dating advice given by gay matchmaker Jacqueline Burns.

Money Talks, by Gay Matchmaker Jacqueline Burns

2018-07-08

Gay Matchmaker Jacqueline Burns has seen that one of the leading causes of issues in gay long term relationships with high earning gay men, is finances.

Honesty in Gay Dating, by Gay Matchmaker Jacqueline Burns

2018-06-08

When searching for love, be honest with yourself about who you are and what you really need. Gay matchmaker Jacqueline Burns talks over just a few of the things she looks at when gay matchmaking.

Are You Ready for an Emotionally Available Gay Long-Term Relationship, by Gay Matchmaker Jacqueline Burns

2018-05-08

It's all very well dating men who physically tick the boxes, but are they emotionally available? Gay matchmaking agency The Echelon Scene ensures every introduction is to men who are emotionally available.

Ready or Not - Commitment to a Long-Term Gay Relationship, by Gay Matchmaker Jacqueline Burns

2018-04-08

Gay matchmaker Jacqueline Burns talks commitment. What to do when you've found a compatible match. Enjoy the process of gay matchmaking, even if it doesn't always come naturally for you.

Family Matters in Gay Matchmaking, by Gay Matchmaker Jacqueline Burns

2018-03-08

Gay Matchmaking doesn't just involve taking tried and tested solutions from heterosexual relationships. It's about forging a new path which will find you a long-term gay relationship.

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