Gay Matchmaker New York

Hiring a gay matchmaker in New York is commonplace in a city where people work too hard, date a little too much and live like they are in their twenties all their lives. Gay single men in New York who Jacqueline meets want a long-term relationship.

Who approaches a gay matchmaker in New York

The gay single men who approach gay matchmaking agency The Echelon Scene are some of the world’s most incredible single men. They tend to hear about the gay matchmaking agency through friends that have joined with the service and had success in finding their long-term gay life partner. However sometimes they will come through the website. The gay single men who are enquiring with The Echelon Scene are looking for a long-term monogamous relationship. However, they are not desperate. The gay scene for men in New York can be brutal and as such, many men chose to opt out of the rat race and join with a high end offline gay matchmaking agency. The gay men who Jacqueline Burns, the Founder meets are passionate about what they do and lead busy active lives, so therefore do not want to be constantly dating men who are ultimately, not right for them. They would rather spend their valued off time with friends or family, keeping active or travelling and hand the reigns over to a professional gay dating agency. Jacqueline Burns finds the men to be truly exceptional individuals, very passionate about what they do for work, in great shape and have dynamic lives. The key factor that is lacking for the gay singles who approach the service is of course, love. The men want to share their lives with someone who is their equal. They are looking for a gay long-term partner who they can respect; someone who is also a go getter, who has their life in order and who genuinely wants to meet the right person. 

It is extremely difficult to tell who is genuinely looking for a long-term relationship when you meet someone at a bar. The gentleman may be attractive (that is the easiest thing to assess), but no matter how good a judge of character one may be, the rest is extremely ambiguous. Many men in New York are very open to go on a date, but the key question is ‘how serious are they taking it?’ And are they ACTUALLY ready to meet their gay long term partner. The New York state of mind is fast paced, but the gay single men The Echelon Scene meet in New York don’t want their love lives to follow suit. They may have serial dated in the past and are over it, or it simply never appealed to them in the first place. One thing Jacqueline Burns has found continuously is it is very rare for someone she works with to be ‘on the scene’ many (no matter the age) have matured and value close bonds and meaningful relationships over being seen at all the right places. Though they may still go to Basel and Mustique, they aren’t defined by that and know themselves a little better now.

Hiring a gay matchmaker in New York

Hiring a gay matchmaker in New York is easy, there are plenty of options. However most of them are not offline and catered for the high-end market. The Echelon Scene focuses on one market, gay single men. There are many of those too in New York. So whilst gay men must filter through to find The Echelon Scene, so too must The Echelon Scene filter through all of the gay single men in New York to find the most genuine, high-achieving and attractive. Key points to consider when going about hiring a gay matchmaker are: Am I coming across the right men on my own? Am I over dating? Am I under dating? What are the issues I have been coming across (if any)? Have a fine tuned my search for the ideal gay partner? Some of these questions might not need solid answers as a key role of a decent matchmaker is to go over everything with you, in person. However they are important points to consider. At The Echelon Scene, Jacqueline Burns delivers the service for each of her Clients. A rare sight to see the Founder of a matchmaking agency working directly with the Client. This, Jacqueline finds, is key for success as her Client’s benefit from her 9 years of being a matchmaker. Experience is key as a gay matchmaker can listen but gut instinct works best from experience in the industry. Jacqueline Burns began working as a gay matchmaker immediately after she finished studying Psychology as a British Psychological Society accredited Masters. Her research during this time was on gay relationship longevity, looking at the factors of what makes a gay relationship last long-term. This allowed her skill to be honed beautifully to being a gay matchmaker for men. As you would expect gay matchmaking men is a different skill to matchmaking straight men and women.

Need for a gay matchmaker in New York

There is a great need for many men to hire a gay matchmaker in New York. But gay matchmaking is not right for everyone. If you are on the fence it is worth enquiring. At The Echelon Scene, Founder Jacqueline Burns will come and meet you in person to further explain how the service works. There are definitely issues with dating in each city. However, New York City has unique factors which make it extremely difficult to find a long-term gay partner. The USA is not an old culture like that of the UK and the focus is very driven on money and the freedom to be whatever you want to be in life. This puts a lot of pressure on careers and with the average New Yorker working much longer hours than the average Londoner, finding time – not to date, but to carefully consider your date, is lost. Luckily with gay offline matchmaking services such as The Echelon Scene, the time element is removed and the only time Clients need to put in is going on the date and giving detailed feedback the next day to Jacqueline Burns. 

Life of a gay matchmaker in New York

Jacqueline Burns loves her time spent in New York meeting some of the most amazing gay single men that she works with. Jacqueline spent the majority of 2018 in New York and last year travelled once per month to meet single gay gentlemen looking for a relationship. If you would like to meet gay matchmaker Jacqueline face to face please ENQUIRE and she will reach out to you directly and meet you on her next trip. Although The Echelon Scene travel all over Manhattan to meet the gay single men in locations they are most comfortable in, their offices are right next to Union Square- so men are also welcome to pop in there. It all sounds rather glamorous (or perhaps it doesn’t) but gay matchmaking can be tough. There are a lot of points to consider before setting people up on dates whilly nilly. It involves a skilled gay matchmaker to ensure that the match is right and their Client is putting their best foot forward on each date. Dates are fun yes, but they are also emotional endeavours and as light-hearted and relaxed as people may seem initially when they are looking for a gay long-term relationship, one puts their heart on the line on each date they go on. This is why many matchmakers quit, because it hurts someone to go on a date that isn’t right and many matchmakers don’t enjoy displeasing people. Luckily at The Echelon Scene, we think very carefully into each introduction and at the very least members are likely to end up as friends. We also give our Clients ‘real talk’ and know how to manage expectations and emotions to ensure our Clients are giving themselves the best possible chance of meeting their gay long term partner.

Each meeting typically takes 1hr30 mins to 2 hrs for people to hear all they need to know from their gay matchmaker, understand the process, learn about the gentlemen they work with and for Jacqueline to learn more about the man she is meeting. It is important there is a match between matchmaker and single gay gentleman. The Echelon Scene will give you points to consider and go through everything step by step.  

If you would prefer to have a brief phone call with Jacqueline prior to meeting, that’s fine too. She can give you a call for a 20 minute chat to further discuss the dating life in New York for a single gay man, or tell you about the service. Reach out here.